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How Do You Handle A Crisis?

They call it a crisis because you do not expect what happened to happen to you!


So what do you do? Who do you become in a crisis situation? Does a previously unknown part of you jump into action? Do you hold back and wait for someone else to tell you what to do? Do you curl up into a ball of fear?

We've been talking about who you REALLY are. Well, a crisis reveals the REAL  you.

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Who are you when unexpected circumstances force you to make some tough choices?

I've definitely handled some life-or-death situations in my lifetime. But I was not expecting to be in another one last Friday.

A major winter storm hit my area. The snow was pouring down faster than the plows could clear the roads. Indeed, a snow plow slipped right off the road into a ditch next to my house.

As the snow fell without letting up the winds gusted as high as 45 mph. Small snow-laden branches were falling down all around my house.  A tree blow down across a street - a whole tree.  

I later discovered fallen trees had closed my road here and also closed lanes on the interstate highway for miles and miles!

My heart thumped quite a bit as I hoped none of those enormous heavy branches would snap and take down the electrical lines right outside my window.

All day and night I heard the boom of large clumps of snow falling off branches overhead hitting my roof. And I hoped none would come right through it.  A branch had blown down on my roof in a previous wind storm. You see, in that deep snow I didn't know how I could have easily gotten out of my house and escaped to safety.

And then the electricity went out,

The temperature in my house quickly dropped to 55 degrees F. I didn't know how much lower it might go. I had no other source of heat. Would the pipes hold okay?

Oh yeah, the electricity runs the pump from my well so I also could not flush the commode.

Now, I like adventures but I gotta tell you - this one? I would have gladly never known that situation.

Ah, but I have always been someone who handles a crisis without thinking - just responded right away.

Watch the video to find out what happened. AND to answer my questions for you - which you can share below the video.

About the Author Ali Bierman

Ali Bierman has been a relationship expert most of her life. As a wife of 32 years, mother, psychotherapist, specialized kinesiologist, ordained metaphysical minister, best selling author, Albert Nelson Marquis Lifetime Achievement Award winner, gifted artist and composer, teacher, family member and friend, she brings a unique perspective to her work. Change happens instantly in Ali's world. What takes a long time, and maybe never happens for some people, is getting ready to change.

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